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Rumination: What It Is & How to Stop Doing It

Anneli RichardsLMFT, Owner & Director
February 17, 2025
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Rumination: What It Is & How to Stop Doing It

Rumination involves obsessively thinking about negative experiences and feelings. Some people replay events that occurred in the past, while others worry about situations that could potentially occur in the future. Rumination tends to have a snowball effect -- certain mental health conditions (including generalized anxiety disorder and depression) can trigger rumination, and rumination can in turn worsen the symptoms of those conditions.

What Causes Rumination?

Several factors can contribute to rumination:

  • Stressful life events -- Job loss, relationship problems, or health issues
  • Perfectionism -- Setting impossibly high standards for yourself
  • Low self-esteem -- Doubting your worth or abilities
  • Trauma -- Unresolved traumatic experiences
  • Certain personality traits -- Neuroticism and a tendency toward negative thinking
  • The Effects of Rumination

    When left unchecked, rumination can:

  • Worsen depression and anxiety symptoms
  • Interfere with problem-solving abilities
  • Damage relationships
  • Lead to unhealthy coping mechanisms
  • Cause physical symptoms like headaches and insomnia
  • How to Stop Ruminating

    1. Recognize When You're Doing It

    The first step is awareness. Notice when your thoughts start looping and gently redirect them.

    2. Challenge Your Thoughts

    Ask yourself: Is this thought helpful? Is it based on facts? What would I tell a friend who had this thought?

    3. Schedule Worry Time

    Set aside 15-20 minutes a day for worrying. When ruminating thoughts arise outside that time, remind yourself to save them for later.

    4. Engage in Physical Activity

    Exercise is one of the most effective ways to break the rumination cycle by shifting your focus to your body.

    5. Practice Mindfulness

    Mindfulness helps you observe thoughts without getting caught up in them.

    6. Seek Professional Help

    If rumination is significantly impacting your quality of life, a therapist can help you develop strategies to break the cycle.

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